She is an Abuser (Don't Mess with Her)

Her daughter and she (17), born in Philadelphia, came to Washington D.C. for a better life. Unfortunately, that didn't happen. I met her on Upward, and she sold me a sob story. I went in to help her, but realized why she was in a bad situation.

She is abusive. She abused me, and she abused her daughter. The government assistance recipient tried to bully me for over a year and I constantly refused to let her do it. The more I resisted, the worse the abuse got.

Her language towards me is vulgar: “crack head”, “bum”, “loser”, “pervert”, “low life”, “dumb”, “stupid” the list went on, constantly throughout the relationship. She would tell me I’m having sex with my cousin. Tell me how ugly my exes were. Constantly harass me with cheating accusations and women whose pictures I like on social media. She would constantly tell me how bad I was as a man, no matter how good I was. And she constantly lied forever and a day.

She would mock me constantly. Whatever I did to show my love, concern, etc. she would turn it around and make a joke out of it to kill my personality. She was only after my money, not me. This continuous mockery cause me to lose a lot of myself.

She threatened to kill me, numerous times, even putting a weapon up to my throat. Told me she would kill my pet out of anger for breaking up with her.

And she would yell in my face like an animal at the top of her lungs.

She physically abused me.

Used her first over 10 different times to express her anger. Mostly over her accusing me of cheating or being with another woman. She even grabbed my steering wheel while I was driving, putting both our lives at risk because I wouldn't talk to her. She spit in my face, Through a cold, frozen Wendy’s frosty on my person, getting it all over my car seats in the process. Broke my rear view mirror in my car and cut open one of my stuffed animals in front of her apartment complex out of anger. All of this happened prior to her beating me up with her first and then waiting for me to jump before she started smiling in happiness.

Smear campaign

Went around telling people I abused her and that I raped her. She told my mom, and I’m sure she told her mom, friends, and whoever else. She contacted an Instagram follower and told her that I raped her and abused her. This happened because I didn't want to be with her anymore.

Threats

She insinuated that she would tell her son, who is allegedly in a gang. Her family are a group that are dangerous and this is a huge reason why I’m getting a protective order. Now, I know she knows where I live. She also threatened to destroy me, asking for money.

Child Abuse

Her daughter slipped up and told me that her mother abuses her. I believe it based on the relationship of the daughter almost burning down the house, flooding the apartment, jumping on the couch and breaking it, punching holes in the wall, and destroying every creation her mother tries to build in the home. The daughter talks back and doesn't really show respect to her mother.

In a car conversation between me and her, she hinted at her wanting her daughter dead. I can be a jokeful guy. One day, I believe she was angry at her daughter for some reason. And I could sense that she hated her daughter. I brought up the topic of her wanting her daughter dead. Most of the time she is responsive and emotional. I thought maybe she would laugh it off and be playful with me. Nope. She was quiet, mean, and thinking as if she and I could kill her daughter together. I wasn’t sure that this was true until I thought about it and realized that she may have wanted her daughter to die (seriously) that day.

I hung around her house frequently, kinda didn't give her breathing room. She welcomed me. These continuous visits kinda ensured her daughter’s safety.

The daughter also says that she brings different guys into her house and never gets to know them. The daughter was hurt by this.

Daughter:

Her daughter was out of control. Cursing, in grown folks' business, and talking over me. Judging me without a care or discipline from her mom.

Her past

Fighting boyfriends, domestic abuse, fighting men on the street. Fighting women. Threatening to kill people.

Last time I talked to her, she said that she is the ish, you don’t know who you're f’ing with. Well, I know who you are, that's why I left you, and she went on to say that she will show me. And also stating that I will never date another woman after her.